I was looking for a reaction from the other side of the table, but the absence of one was nearly as telling.
I’d invited a friend, an accomplished endurance athlete, to lunch in order to get advice.
I shared with him the stats about the ultramarathon I’d signed up for. The race was just a few days away and I was worried I wasn’t prepared.
He didn’t dismiss my concerns with positive reinforcements like “You’ve got this. No worries.” Instead he offered me two pieces of advice that’ve stuck with me:
- Relentless. Forward. Progress.*
- Don’t camp out at the aid stations.
Over the years I’ve adopted “Relentless. Forward. Progress.” as a personal mantra. When the going gets tough; DON’T – STOP – MOVING.
When something is complicated, break it down to its simplest components. Complete one, and move on to the next.
Don’t think about the next ten miles or even the next mile. Think about the hill you’re climbing right now. Can you take one more step? Yes? Do it. Can you take another? Yes. Keep moving forward – relentlessly.
The second piece of advice, related to the first, is equally profound.
You don’t hang out at the aid stations too long because it’s the opposite of progress. If you get too comfortable, you just might stay. Grab what you need and move on.
The aid station is a metaphor for life. It represents your comfort zone. I’m not sure who said “Comfort zones may be nice places, but they are waste lands where nothing grows.”
What job / relationship / routine have you gotten too comfortable in? You need to mix it up. To be clear, I’m not suggesting you quit your job. Maybe that’s what you need to do. But maybe it’s just the opposite. Maybe you need to double down and take your skills to the next level so you can grow in the job you have.
Whatever your situation, don’t get too comfortable.
Relentless. Forward. Progress.
P.S. I’ll never know if I had what it took to finish that ultra. What started out as a light drizzle the morning of the race continued to increase in intensity throughout the day. Stream crossings that were supposed to be ankle deep were knee deep, then waist deep, and an even deeper crossing became impassable. We were pulled from the course for safety reasons, having completed a little less than 70% of the full distance. Nevertheless, I still count it as one of my greatest accomplishments. And yes, it was way out of my comfort zone.
*It wasn’t until later that I discovered that “Relentless Forward Progress” was the name of a book about ultra-running by Bryon Powell.